the very important friend

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See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Sounds perfect Wahhhh, I don’t wanna
duncebento
duncebento

the “old money aesthetic” tiktok trend was so funny oh my god. ironically similar to the appropriation of punk the attempt to replicate only the visuals of an “old money aesthetic” is doomed. the entire point is that the money is devoted to tailoring, function and ease. think like margiela for hermes

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his collections were critiqued for simplicity to the point of boringness but the beauty here is moreso for the wearer than the beholder. the luxury is in the pure quality materials— cotton, leather, angora, wool, whatever— and the absolute ease in wearing them. this is the ideological sister to the hoodie and sweatpants: won’t draw attention to you, but a softness and a slight excess of fabric that makes them heaven to move around in. plus, you’ll look completely presentable. ESPECIALLY for women’s clothing, high fashion less focused on restricting the body and more on caressing it is luxurious. clothing designed for the woman wearing it and not the man looking at her is luxurious. again, the point here is the quality of the raw material and the precision of the tailoring.

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these will never not be cosplays because if something doesn’t fit or you look uncomfortable it’s over. if there is such a thing as an “old money aesthetic” (which there isn’t necessarily but we know what they mean) it’s definied by an ideology favoring comfort and artisanship, which happen to be expensive, rather than favoring the expense in and of itself, if you even care

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duncebento
segretecose

they told you it’s cleaner to wax your pussy raw remove its natural barrier completely fucking up your follicles and risking damaging your skin permanently and then they told you it’s sexy to wear polyester underwear that doesn’t let air through creating the perfect environment for all sorts of bacteria to proliferate in and also goes IN your ass creating a direct channel from your anus to your bald defenceless pussy and you believed it. you believed it

ashleyfanfic

So looking like there’s broccoli sticking out of your undies is safe!

duncebento

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it is yeah

me when i've definitely seen a bush before also of course it's safe everyone's had one for like a billion years?????? hello??
chocolatechippi
chroniccoolness

ocd is not fucking destigmatized

chroniccoolness

"intrusive thought" gets thrown around by assholes talking about putting strainers on their heads or stepping on a leaf who in the next sentence will say "if your thoughts are about actually hurting people they should put you in a psych ward". compulsions and rituals get seen as proof you're "crazy". ocd insight CAN be delusional, even. pocd and sexual ocd is especially demonized, though even something as "harmless" (to others. not *us*) as contamination OCD is still mocked, belittled, and seen as a sign something is fundamentally wrong with you. I have seen people twice my age advocate for violence against anyone who thinks the way I've been forced by my mental illness to think since i was 6, maybe 7 years old.

OCD is not destigmatized.

foxgirlchorix
manywinged

the transgender experience of seeing a fictional character undergo an extremely painful but rapid transformation like growing and twisting into an enormous wolflike beast or having wings burst bloodily from their back and going god i wish that were me

manywinged

the desire to not just change but be transformed into something else that is visibly different but still you. the need for that change to be something undeniable that you cannot simply look away from or pretend to ignore.